Should I listen to women's forums?

The Internet has become so firmly established in everyone's daily life that many women can no longer imagine a day without communicating in social networks, without searching for movies, books, recipes, without walking around the world using maps. Even dating has now been transferred to the virtual world, and communication has been transferred to forums via links. Somehow it so happened that today it is much easier to ask for advice not from a neighbor or girlfriend, but from the owners of a high rating, who will support and prompt, and share their own experience. But is it right? Is it worth trusting the advice that any women's forum is filled with?

Before you ask for help, you need to understand that anyone can hide behind a nickname and rating - a practicing psychologist who is gaining experience in communicating with people, and an ordinary housewife, whose advice will overestimate her mood, and even a man who just wants to brighten up lonely evening. How many people - so many opinions, and even more so it’s not a fact that everyone will answer honestly and to the point, perhaps someone just wants to throw out negativity at a newcomer or just laugh. In any case, it is better to trust those tips that are written from the heart, with knowledge of the topic and do not contain links to third-party sites, which may just be prepaid advertising.

It is also worth paying attention to the fact that each advice or opinion is just a reflection of the inner world of the interlocutor. For example, it seemed to a woman that her husband became colder towards her, forgot to give flowers, did not wish good night ... She goes to the forum, creates a topic, describes her situation - and comments fly like from a cornucopia! The only problem is that few have tried to understand the situation, to delve into the essence of the issue. Most will simply start talking about their problems, divorces, quarrels, intimidating the poor woman even more. And it's good if there is at least one person on the entire forum who will really pay attention to the situation, support and give the right advice.

And most likely everything will resolve itself, it turns out that the husband, on the contrary, was busy organizing a surprise for his half or was busy with work. Therefore, rule number two is that you should not completely “dissolve” in negative comments, you need to listen only to rational arguments. It is best to listen to advice, but do as your own mind and soul tells you, because no one except them knows the specific situation best.